Tuesday, October 12, 2010
It really astounds me how some people can behave in the ways that they do.
Why does a person two-times her boyfriend? Because the "falling" in love element is gone? Because she wants some thrill in her life? Because of her family background? Is it that hard to stay faithful in a relationship?
Why do you even get into a relationship if you can't be faithful to the one you've chosen to be with? Because you just want someone to rely on? Because you want a back-up plan? Because it doesn't affect you in another way to share yourself with more than one - the more the merrier?
Why do some people keep lying and putting up a false front? To protect themselves from others? Are you not suffering from inferiority complex? Do you not truly love yourself - the real you under the facade of lies? Does it not make you guilty for lying to your boyfriend-no.1 about your whereabouts, right in front of your fling/boyfriend-no.2?
Have you thought of the hurt that you'll inflict on your boyfriendS? And then ultimately, yourself?
Can you love yourself a little more?
And it escapes me how a person can willingly be a third-party in a relationship, knowing full well that she has a boyfriend. Won't you question her morals? Won't you feel insecure with her, if in the future you two really get together? It's hard for people to change. Call me pessimistic.. but do you really think that she'll change once she's with you? Can you even trust her when she's not around you? Or do you think to be with her 24/7? Do you really think she won't commit the same thing again?
I'm flabbergasted at the seemingly lack of moral direction of these individuals. Maybe some people are truly open-minded.. but we can't confuse morality with open-mindedness, or can we?
Maybe I'm still a conservative.. but I cannot bring myself to accept these kinds of behaviour. I'm not as open-minded, maybe I'm bias. But I cannot agree with such attitudes and behaviours.
I have my own set of moral values which I identify with, which apparently are not shared by some others.
To each his own
**amoi** XD
11:59 PM
